complete repairs. 42 Mr K was described to have been jealous and extremely controlling of Mrs K.43 This had a significant impact on Mrs K's relationship with her children as she was limited to visiting her daughter once a week, and her son very rarely, only for the children's birthdays, as she had to lie to Mr K about where she was going.44
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The available evidence suggests that those close to Mrs K, specifically her children, her close friends and her employer were all aware of the abuse Mr K perpetrated against her and noted that Mr K was 'a totally different person in public. '45
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Mrs K's son recalled an incident 10-15 years prior to the fatal incident, where Mrs K presented to his sister's home with injuries to her nose following an assault by Mr K.46 Mrs K returned home following this incident, despite both her children urging her to leave the marriage. Mrs K's daughter states that she had always 'told [Mrs K] to leave [Mr K], she was worried about what people would think. .. that he wouldfi nd her anyway ... that she was too old to leave. '4 7 Mrs K's daughter also recalled that her mother had disclosed previously that she was 'afraid that [Mr K] would kill her [Mrs K} while she was asleep', however she never thought her father was capable of killing her mother.48
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Mrs K's death, and deaths similar to hers, highlight the difficult and often dangerous predicament that family violence presents to family, friends and others who either become aware of it, or suspect it is occurring. Coupled with this is the reoccurring indication within the relevant research, that female victims of family violence are more likely to disclose the violence to family or friends, rather than to authorities or specialist services. Many times, third parties feel, understandably, ill-equipped to assist or are concerned that any intervention may increase the danger for the victim or themselves.
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In an effort to address the barriers that third parties face in obtaining access to information about family violence and providing information and assistance to victims of family violence, the Royal Commission into Family Violence (the Royal Commission)49 reviewed the available resources for third parties.
42 Coronial Brief of evidence, Statement of MA dated 23 April 2017, 56; Statement of ZK dated 24 April 2017, 77; Statement of BM dated 5 May 2017, 94; Statement of Jason Allen dated 23 May 2017, 69 43 Coronial Brief, Statement of ZK dated 24 April 2017, 76 44 Ibid 45 Ibid, 77 46 Ibid 47 Co,-onial Brief, Statement of MA dated 23 April 2017, 56.
48 Ibid, 57 49 Victoria, Royal Commission into Family Violence, Final Report, March 2016